"The World is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page." -St. Augustine



Sunday, December 29, 2013

Typhoon Yolanda/Haiyan

On our way to my dad's hometown, we drove by tangled up electrical wires, wires saturated in puddles, bent utility poles, and uprooted coconut trees. There were houses that probably had a square type of structure at one point, but now they looked like rhombuses. There were tin roof pieces that were no longer on roofs. There were houses that were just abandoned and uninhabitable. 

This wasn't even in the hardest hit area of the Philippines. 

My heart still goes out to all of those affected by Typhoon Yolanda/Haiyan. And even though I'm actually here, I can't fathom the extent of all the damage.

My mom said that one of the phrases she remembers from when she was growing up was that: Filipinos are like bamboo. They're strong, they bend, but they don't break. They are a resilient people. Despite all of the destruction that occurred, you still see them smiling. 

For a country that is predominately Catholic/Christian, I found this song to be quite fitting:


Continued prayers for the Philippines. <3

Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Monday, December 23, 2013

Made It!

Just a quick post for my family & friends who may be following my blog: arrived safely in the Philippines!

People have already assumed that I speak Filipino.
I'm above average height over here.
It's currently 82 degrees here and 29 degrees back home.

I've had a little bit of culture shock because things are definitely different, but I'm just taking it all in and enjoying life as it happens. :)


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Another Chapter Ends and Another Chapter Begins

Well, graduation is just on the horizon. In just a few days, I will officially be done with my undergraduate career. I'm still trying to wrap my head around that statement, but what I can say is that the past 4.5 years of my life have been 4.5 of the greatest.

Lately, I've been pretty contemplative and have been reminiscing about the earlier parts of my good ol' college days. I've been reflecting on my life, looking back on how I got to where I am today, and thinking about the people who helped me get here.

How did I end up at this University in the first place? When I was in high school (2008), I attended a summer program for young women who were interested in the STEM (science, technology, engineering, math) fields. Before attending the program, I was interested in mechanical or civil engineering because I was good at math and science; however, like many high school students, I didn't exactly know what I wanted to do. One of the subjects covered in the program was vehicular crash safety. Instantly, I was hooked and this is where my passion for crash safety started. Honestly, if I didn't attend the program, I have no idea where I would be.

I have lived my life in 11 week increments for the past 4.5 years. These 11 week terms mean that when it's time for school, it is time for school. We learn so much here in such a small amount of time; as one can imagine, it definitely has the potential of stressing you out...

But what keeps me sane is my awesome support system, which I feel so fortunate to have. Obviously, many of the people in my support system are here with me during school terms. What am I going to miss the most about college? The people. Yes, I'm going to try my best to keep in touch with people (and I hope they do the same), but there's just something different about being in the same general vicinity as them on a daily basis. I won't be able to walk over to the Campus Center to talk to a friend in the Student Life office during the week. I won't be able to go downstairs in the dorms to go sit on another friend's car chair (that is both good for sitting on and taking naps on). I won't be able to attend Asian American Association meetings every Wednesday. I won't be able to head over to the Crash Lab and hang out with co-workers. I won't be able to take a very short stroll down the hallway in the dorms to get a hug from two of my best friends. I won't be able to have sisterhood dinner with my sisters every week in the Great Court.


There is a part of me that just doesn't want to grow up. But of course I'm excited for life beyond college because it won't exactly involve sitting in lectures or staying up until the wee hours of the morning to obtain that one last nugget of knowledge--until I get to grad school that is.

Amongst all of the final exams, papers, and "see-you-later"s, I'm also getting ready to embark on another worldly adventure. (I'll be blogging about this in the future!) Am I ready? Not quite. But I just have to trust in the fact that everything I have to get done will get done...eventually...just as they always do.

As one can imagine, life is pretty crazy right now. The past week and a half, I've been on the verge of a breakdown due to the stress of school, realizing that another chapter of my life is coming to a close and another one is beginning, having to say see-you-later to some amazing people and an amazing institution, etc. However, I surprisingly have been keeping it together--for now. The tears will come, I'm sure, but I know that part of the reason for those tears is happiness. Happiness for the road on which I am traveling. I feel beyond blessed for the way that God has shaped my life thus far, and I'm extremely thankful for the people He has bought into my life to share in the journey. To all my friends, both near & far, I love you! Thanks for being the wonderful people that you are, and I look forward to writing more chapters with you in this book called Life!


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Dancing with Meaning

Tinikling is one of the traditional dances of the Philippines. It involves two people clapping long poles/sticks (usually bamboo) horizontally on the ground while others dance between them. The dance imitates the movement of the tikling bird gracefully avoiding bamboo traps set by farmers in the rice fields.

Image found here.

I learned how to dance Tinikling when I was a freshman in high school--eight years ago. One day each year, we would have a celebration of sorts, known as Ethnic Bazaar. Students would bring in various dishes for people to try and there would be performances--dancing, singing, poetry, etc. In other words, it was awesome. I went to an all-girl Catholic high school and one of the coolest things about it was the diversity that could be found there. Students were of many backgrounds: Mexican, Jewish, Chaldean, Black, Muslim, Catholic, White, Filipino--the list goes on and on.

Throughout my years in high school, I remember going to and/or leading dance practices, whether they were at 7 in the morning or 3 in the afternoon...sometimes both in one day. The amount of dedication that we put into the dance each year was quite impressive--and to this day, I am thankful for my friends who put up with my numerous practice sessions! Dedication is pretty much key when learning how to dance Tinikling. I once was the timid one, afraid to get my foot caught in the sticks, but I learned not to be afraid rather quickly...maybe it's my stubbornness and/or determination. Anyway, I digress.

Tinikling does have its dangerous side. I can't even count how many times my feet have landed on the poles or how many times my foot/ankle has gotten caught in them. At one point, we used real bamboo--the problem was that the bamboo that we borrowed had definitely been used for many years and was taped up a lot because the bamboo had cracked...well, if you get your foot/toes caught on one of the cracks, it leads to a cut(s)--and fun neon bandages so that you can continue practicing! Dedication, folks. Tinikling is quite the workout, and every time I have to get back into practicing for the dance I realize how out of shape I really am. I also remember that the dance is somewhat strenuous on the knees and calf muscles...yay, charley horses? Thankfully, though, I've never gotten seriously injured while dancing Tinikling. The only notable injury was suffered by one of my friends who was watching us practice and just wanted to try it out...she fractured her foot somehow. :( She was a trooper though!

Every time I dance Tinikling (or any other traditional Filipino dance), my sense of Filipino pride is definitely strengthened. I am proud to show others an aspect of the Filipino culture. Being American born but raised in a Filipino household taught me to embrace my uniqueness, embrace my roots--and at the same time, embrace the uniqueness and roots of others.

In college, I have been able to share the joy of Tinikling with others. Unfortunately, due to my university's fast-paced schedule, I haven't had the same flexibility to schedule enough practices to teach people how to dance. But something is better than nothing, I suppose. Each year, we have two celebrations: Destination Diversity and Taste of Diversity, with Destination Diversity being the larger event of the two. They follow the same premise as Ethnic Bazaar. I have danced Tinikling at these events at one point or another, and I have also performed poetry, have played my guitar, and have sung the Filipino national anthem.

This year's Destination Diversity will take place on today and I will be dancing Tinikling (and a Korean pop dance). This time though, Tinikling has even more meaning for me. For one, this will be my last time performing in my undergraduate career. But even more importantly, I will be dancing while especially thinking about the Philippines, the Filipino people, and what happened to their country about 2 weeks ago.

As you may have heard, the Philippines was devastated by Typhoon Haiyan/Typhoon Yolanda earlier this month. The extent of destruction is unfathomable. Not a day has gone by where I haven't thought about/prayed for the people of the Philippines. At school, we've started a fundraiser to donate money to the American Red Cross to help with the relief effort. There are other organizations out there collecting donations as well, and I encourage you to help out if you can. If you are unable to monetarily support, all I ask is that you keep the Philippines in your prayers and keep positive thoughts that the Philippines can bounce back from this disastrous event.



Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Monday, October 21, 2013

Coming Soon to a Blog Near You

Hi All! :)

Just wanted to give you a quick update! There are a bunch of blog posts waiting to be finished in my "drafts" section and a bunch more waiting to be started. I STILL have yet to finish blogging about Europe, and I've been back for over a year...so my apologies on that front. I'll get there...eventually. The main point of this update is to let you know that I will indeed be seeing more of the world soon! Plane tickets have been purchased, so this is legit happening...but I don't think it's fully hit me yet. I would put that on the fact that I have something to keep my mind occupied before then--my last semester of my undergraduate career. Lots of exciting things are on the horizon and I am definitely on a roller coaster of emotions at this point. In addition to excitement, changes and adventures in life bring on feelings of anxiety, fear, and nervousness. But no worries, the excitement far outweighs the others!

Now back to essay writing!


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Class Trip to Berlin, Germany

*from 31 May 2012
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Train time...again.. Journeying to Dublin.

May 15: Fluids, machine design, heat transfer, lunch in the mensa with friends. Our afternoon machine design class was canceled, so I studied for fluids. Had leftover pizza for dinner.

May 16: Fluids midterm--didn't feel confident about the test. Germany within Europe was canceled. I packed for Berlin, and then had lunch in the mensa with friends. We had to skip our heat transfer class because we had to catch a train to Berlin for our Germany within Europe class trip. The three of us went to the train station and were on our way. We arrived in Berlin...in a slightly sketchy area, around 10:30pm. We took a taxi to the hostel. We checked in, and my friend and I were in the same room--we were the 1st ones to get there; the 6 others came later. The main light and the lights on one side of the room didn't work. they said they would bring up fans, but they didn't. The walls of the hostel were decorated with some weird graffiti/murals...there was a demonic looking rabbit on the wall in our other friend's room. Anyway, we then got ready for bed. SLEEP.

May 17-May 20 (morning): Refer to our teacher's itinerary. [hopefully I'll be able to find it and update this!]

17: Our teacher's uncle and aunt came with our class. For lunch, we had sausages/hot dogs in the park--along with Pepsi Twist! Then our class split off and were free to roam to museums and such. Three friends and I went to Dunkin' Donuts and then went to the History Museum. We reconvened with the class and had dinner at a restaurant. After eating, we went to the basement of the restaurant where they had 2 alleys for 9-pin bowling (Kegelbahn).

Yummy reminder of America :P
At the history museum
Kegelbahn
18: Our class went around the city on bikes all day, and biked along the path of the Berlin Wall. After our full day of adventure, some of us stopped by a convenience store on our way back to the hostel, and then got on the tram. Back at the hostel, we got ready to go out for the night. Two of my friends and I hung out at the hostel, and then decided to go out with the rest of the class. Our teacher was going to join us. While waiting, some of our classmates were singing outside--one classmate in particular kept singing "Oh, Canada!" We all walked to get döner kebab. After that, we went to a club with a 7 Euro cover. I hung out there mostly with the 3 friends I went to the museum with the day before--we danced and had a great time! The four of us headed back to the hostel and stopped by a food stand to get some fries. When we arrived at the hostel, I got ready for bed after the fun but tiring day.

Berlin Wall
Bikes!...Mine may or may not have been the smallest one in the bunch. :)
...this was the ceiling of the hostel we stayed at...there were stuffed toy cows stapled on to it

19: The four of us went to the Technical Museum--It was a really hot day and we were all tired. Later on in the day, our class did our simulation game where we were representing different branches of German politics. 

Technical Museum
20: We made clay models of different Berlin landmarks that we learned about during our trip and painted them and laid them out in a map-like design. 

Our class' version of Berlin
20: After the class trip was officially done, I was able to get in touch with a family friend. He said that his sister would meet me after church. I went to St. Hedwig's for Mass, and waited...but no one showed up...and I didn't have credit on my phone to make outgoing calls. I went to a market area and bought wurst & walked around the market, which mostly sold art. I sat down, looked up when I heard a bell ring, and finally saw a pay phone.

St. Hedwig
Wurst at the market


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Well, that actually wraps up all of my hand written journal entries! Phew! I somewhat "caught up," but definitely still have more adventures to fill you in on--adventures from Europe and adventures from North America. It'll all be based off of memory and pictures, so please bear with me!


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Quick Thought: How Many Days?

*from 27 May 2012
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On a train once again. I wonder how many days I've spent on a train. Going to attempt to get some homework done.


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

More Adventures in Lausanne, Switzerland

*from 25 May 2012
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Here I am, once again, on a train attempting to catch up on journaling. This time around, I am en route to Amsterdam.

Okie dokes back to Balelec.We saw some guys dressed as Pac-Man & ghosts. Sometimes I wasn't exactly sure how to dance to the music, but it was still fun. Later, we met up with some other friends. We went into one of the buildings with dubstep type music, and then went back to the other group for a bit. We left around 2am.

A LOT of people
Listening to some dubstep
May 12: We got ready and had breakfast at the apartment. Then we went to meet another friend (she and I went to the same middle school before and she graduated from the same high school as our friend we were staying with in Lausanne) at the train station [if I remember correctly, she was studying abroad or working in France at the time]. We stopped by the apartment to drop her bags off and then went grocery shopping. We returned to the apartment to make lunch--pasta & salad. I also tried some comté that she brought from France. I worked on homework while they watched a tv show. We left to find a church to go to Mass--it was a traveling church--but we couldn't find it...the directions weren't clear online. We asked some people for directions to the street. One lady ended up telling them (my two friends both spoke French, as did the lady) about how her kids used to go to school near there. We would've been like 30 minutes late (or more) if we decided to still go We decided just to go the next day in the morning. We did a little sight-seeing--Lausanne's Cathedral (not Catholic) and the shoreline. We went back to the apartment and they cooked dinner while I did more homework (machine design). We had salmon, rice, zucchini, and wine. We were all pretty tired so we didn't go out. After dinner, I finished my machine design homework.  

Cathedral
Shoreline
 May 13: I got ready, packed up my stuff, and then had breakfast. We went to go to Mass, but our friend and I needed bus tickets, but the machine only accepted coins (in my opinion, not a very smart concept). [Side note: I'm missing my family a lot right now. :/] The three of us went to a gas station to get change and we split a chocolate croissant. We walked back to the bus stop and got tickets. We got off at the stop and walked toward church. We saw 3 people and guessed they were going to Mass, so we kind of followed them. Church was at a grade school and it was pretty packed. We got there during the homily, and it happened to be Confirmation weekend. The Mass was in English. 


After Mass, we walked toward the shoreline. We stopped by a bakery where I bought a panini for lunch. We also walked by the Olympic museum and some clay tennis courts. We took the metro to the train station--I got some postcards and some snacks for the ride. I waited with my friends for the train and said goodbye. [On the train to Lausanne, I wished I was more extroverted & could speak German because a Swiss guy in army uniform sat right across from me on the train.] During my train ride back to Konstanz, I thought about home. 

Yummy panini

The Olympic museum is behind that barricade in that general direction.
Waiting for the train
Train Life: snack, journal, mp3 player

I arrived in Konstanz and on my way back to my apartment, I picked up some döner pizza for dinner. Back at the apartment, I called my friend in Lausanne and then Skyped with my mom--she left Skype on so I could watch/listen to the tv while I studied for fluids. 

Delicious pizza!
May 14: Wake up. Breakfast. Nap. Get ready. Lunch in the mensa. Study fluids. Skype. Döner pizza for dinner.

May 15: Mommy's bday! :)

-will continue later.



Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

School Life & Lausanne, Switzerland

*from 21 May 2012
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Right now, I'm on the train heading back to Konstanz, which a stop over in Offenburg first...I'm attempting once again to catch up on journaling.

May 7: I was feeling really stressed out & lonely & homesick. I had to study for my heat transfer midterm.

May 8: To me, 75% of studying abroad is to travel & explore the new environment. I'm pretty sure I will learn a lot more in the long run from traveling than studying. At the same time, I know that it's important for me to focus on school. I got ready for class--fluids, machine design (he canceled class so that we could study for heat transfer), and heat transfer. I finished 3 of the 4 problems on my midterm. I didn't feel too confident about it, but apparently more confident than some people in the class. At least it's over. Then I had lunch with 2 of my friends in the mensa, followed by machine design where we just went over homework.

May 9: Fluids, Germany within Europe, lunch, heat transfer

May 10: Fluids, lunch with friends, worked on machine design, and packed.

May 11: I finished packing, and then got on the train to Lausanne, Switzerland to visit one of my friends. :) On the train, I worked on Germany within Europe homework and studied fluids. I arrived in Lausanne, got some Franks from the ATM, and then waited outside of McDonald's for a while until my friend met up with me there. We took the metro to her apartment--while she took my backpack in, I hung out at the nearby playground. We then went grocery shopping at Denner and then chilled at her at her apartment. We had dinner (she made spinach tortellini) and I Skype called my mom.

We went to the lakeside to hang out with some of her friends before Balelec. The lake/mountains are pretty--looked like they were painted. Apparently ~15000 were expected to be at Balelec, which is kinds of like an electronic music festival with a lot of stages. There were A LOT of people!

Beautiful lake & mountains
Balalec!


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

A Bit of Paris...and Homesickness

Clearly, I'm STILL catching up from last year!!

*From May 16
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[I'm currently on the train to Offenburg-Berlin with two of my friends).]

It took a long time for our waiter to bring our bill. After dinner, we headed back to my friend's apartment. I took a shower after settling in. By the way, it was an awkward shower, as there was no curtain. Then I figured out how to fold out the bed (in couch) & she helped me plan out where I would go the rest of the weekend.

May 4: I took a shower and got ready for the day's adventures. My first item on the agenda was to take the metro to Trocadero. Trocadero is where you can get great pictures with the Eiffel Tower in the background. I found it & saw the Eiffel Tower for the first time - amazing. I pretty much had the same reaction as when I saw the Colosseum-- "Woah. That is freaking awesome." I took a lot of pictures, and did the tourist thing - I took other people's pictures for them & asked them to take my picture of me. I asked a group of Filipinos, and thanked them in Tagalog--they were surprised. :P Later they asked me to take their picture and called me "Ate" (pronounced: ah-teh)...even though I'm pretty sure they're older than me. (Ate basically means "big sister" in Tagalog.) Maybe I look young to Americans & older to Filipinos...maybe I look my age to Europeans? After all, I haven't gotten carded over here.

Eiffel Tower
 After taking pictures, I scoped out the souvenir stands there. Then, I left Trocadero and went toward the Eiffel Tower (I didn't notice there were stairs, so I ended up walking around. My brother later told me that I was near the Architecture Museum at Trocadero.) I made it to the Eiffel Tower -- that thing is large! I bought a pan au chocolat & water for 4 Euro. I ate my pan au chocolate right near the Eiffel Tower. :) Wonderful.

Delicious pan au chocolat!
There were long lines to go up the Eiffel Tower and only one lift was working. I'm glad the weather was nice, especially because I left my umbrella at my friend's apartment. After I finished, I walked along the Champ de Mars and took more pictures. I saw international peace poles and stopped by a souvenir stand where I bought a J'adore Paris shirt. I continued walking semi-aimlessly and found souvenir shops--I bought magnets, a beret, & 2 scarves. 

International Peace Poles
I ate lunch at a restaurant (pasta with chicken, bread, water) outside. It started raining, but luckily stopped by the time I was done eating. I walked back toward the river, and there was a little market going on--I bought a Paris poster for my brother as a house warming gift & got a little glass duck for myself. :) There was more walking as I was in search of the Louvre. I eventually found my way to Concorde, and passed some museums on the way.


Lunch!
En route to Place de la Concorde
En route to Place de la Concorde
[Paris has a lot of details--and I will come back to it.]

May 6 (night): I did some laundry and then Skyped with my brother and parentals--my brother was home for the weekend & my mom had just come back from Vegas. It was great to see them, but made me really wish I was there with them. :/ My brother mentioned some things about the parish we go to. That night, I had a dream that I was at the parish for a day & was going around hugging people, saying bye because I was going back to Europe the next day.

May 7: I woke up & cried. :( I called one of my best friends because I needed someone to talk to. I was so glad she was there to listen, even though she wasn't all there since I woke her up.
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As you can see, being away from home did take its toll on me sometimes. But I am happy to say that the brighter points of my time abroad greatly outweighed the down points!!


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Feeling

It's hard to describe this feeling that I currently have. The closest I can come is: bittersweet. After this school term, I only have one more left in my undergraduate career. Some of my friends are graduating this weekend, and others are moving to different states soon. I have projects to do and exams to study for. I have a thesis to finish and a room to pack up. Nostalgia hits whenever I look through my pictures from days gone by. I'm ready for a break from school. I'm not ready to leave my college friends. I keep reminiscing about my times in Europe and daydreaming about my future travels. I'm the oldest resident living in my dorm hallway, and the only active member left from my pledge class in my sorority. I find myself on a roller coaster of sorts--the peaks of enjoying life thoroughly and being determined to get things done...then the valleys of being stressed and overwhelmed. Like I said--it's bittersweet. But that's just life, I guess.

Life is just weird.


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Lost Cause?

I'll start this off with a little bit of very vague background information.

The main point of the situation is three-fold:
1) A decision was made.
2) This decision has an effect on myself and my peers.
3) I have written a petition with the hope of reversing said decision.

Is it a lost cause? Perhaps. But who knows what will happen unless one TRIES? When I walk across that stage, whether it be in December (if things happen to work out) or in June next year (if things don't happen to work out), I WILL know this:

I stood up for my beliefs and TRIED to do something about it. 

Back in October, I wrote about "trying" (in regard to a different situation) and I can say that I'm glad that I have taken my own advice. (Click here to read the post!) In the past, I tended be on the slightly quieter end of the spectrum. Because of this, I have been working on being assertive, holding my ground, and speaking up for myself--so to me, this is a pretty big step that took a considerable amount of thought and courage. 

I know there are people out there who may not agree with me--and I truly respect their opinion. I understand that this whole attempt has a chance of failing--and if that happens, I will accept that. I know that there are people out there who agree with me--and I truly appreciate their support. I understand that there is a chance of success--and if that happens, I will be one happy camper...although in some sense, putting the petition out there is a success in and of itself!

In any case, here's to hoping for the best! :)


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Friday, April 19, 2013

European Travel: Part III--Airplanes

Europe has may low budget airlines. The two that I have taken are EasyJet and Ryanair. Honestly, they still seem a little sketchy to me, but they are legit!


The following are my experiences, advice, and FYIs:

1) Distance to the airport. I took EasyJet to get from Zurich to London Hartwick and Ryanair to get from Dublin to Memmingen. The downside for me was that I had to take an hour train ride to get to Zurich, and then another train ride to get from Hartwick to Cardiff. Similarly, I had to take a 2 hour train ride from Memmingen to Konstanz.

2) No free on board service. That means there are no free beverages or peanuts that we Americans are accustomed to. However, they do have food and beverages available for purchase.

3) They try to get you to buy things you don't necessarily need...but I guess that's what companies typically do, right? For example, you do not have an assigned seat...unless you pay for it. This means that it's basically like a free-for all when getting on the plane. My strategy was to get there early (I also got there early because I get paranoid and want to make sure I am there for my flight) and wait near the area where people line up to board.

4) Limited baggage. This is another way they make money. Sometimes they check, sometimes they don't. You're only allowed one bag of specific dimensions and of specific mass--So if you want to stay on the safe side, make sure you measure!Typically, you are only allowed one carry-on.

5) One of the times you will wish that you had an EU passport is when you are standing in line at customs. They have 2 lines--one for EU passport holders and one for non-EU--and of course the non-EU typically moves slower.

6) There are also non-budget European airlines if money is a little less restricted for you. Going to Germany, I flew with United Airlines, but the plane was run by Lufthansa. I had a really good experience flying with them. Granted, it was a long flight so we did get food and drinks, and each seat had it's own monitor screen. In addition, the service and employees were great!


Flying is definitely a good way to reach your destination(s). It can be a cheap option if you're taking a budget airline and it can be a quick option if you're tight on time! Hopefully this post gives you some insight and a heads up on what to expect should you take a flight over there!


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Belonging

Many people have an internal need of the feeling of belonging. Where do you belong? You may say that you belong to a church, a club, a sorority or fraternity, a band, etc.

Even though you may technically, physically be where you belong (such as a meeting or event), it's still possible to feel lonely in a room full of people. It's like you're disconnected from them for some reason. You are missing that feeling of belonging.

When I came back to the States, it took me a while to regain my definition of home, find where I fit in--where I belong. I was beyond thrilled to be back at my home university with my friends, but sometimes I found myself just missing my European life...like I didn't belong where I was. I think this had to with the reverse culture shock deal. However, later on, I came to realize that the world is where I belong--it is my home.

I admit that I still live in the past sometimes, and yearn for the days of yesteryear. I admit that I sometimes live in the future and spend hours upon hours daydreaming about and planning adventures. Something that I need to work on is living in the present...because the present is where I should belong.


Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Monday, March 11, 2013

European Travel: Part II--Trains

"The SBB Train Crew welcomes you aboard the Intercity  heading to Zurich Airport (Flughafen), Zurich Main Station (Hauptbanhof), Winterthur, Weinfelden, Kreutzlingen, Konstanz and wishes you a pleasant journey."...I can't even tell you how many times I was greeted by this (or a similar) automated message...I miss that train route!

Traveling by train in Europe is really quite convenient. Often times, I would be amazed at how small Europe actually is. It's fascinating how I could get from Konstanz to Paris in a matter of 5 hours or Konstanz to Rome in 12 hours--In America, I could get to Chicago in 5 hours or New York City in 12 hours by car.

I have taken a good ol' Amtrak train in the United States. At the time, I had never been on a long distance train before, so my brother and I chose that as our mode of transportation. It was also the cheaper option...but that's because it took 16-18 hours to get from Michigan to New York. (We did have to take a bus from Michigan to Ohio.)

Frankfurt am Main Hauptbanhof
Eurail Pass & Reservations
If you plan to do a lot of train traveling in Europe, then I would definitely recommend getting a Eurail Pass. Seriously, it is one of the greatest things ever. While I was there, I had the 3 month 2nd class Global Pass (There are other options!--depending on how long you want a pass for and where you want to go. Check out their website here.) With this Pass, I was basically allowed to go on any train traveling within 24 countries. However, there is a small catch--I still had to get some reservations, which guarantee a seat on the train. Reservations are not required for all rides, so you should check this when planning your trip. You still save money because you don't have to pay for an actual ticket to get you from point A to point B.

It's a very good idea to get a reservation if you are taking an overnight train, and like I mentioned, it is sometimes required--it depends on the route. For my trip to Rome, I got extremely lucky. I went to the train station on the day I was supposed to leave, and was able to get a bed--the train was almost fully booked--after all, it was heading to Rome...during Holy Week. [Side note: If you are on the top bunk, be cautious if you have a laptop with you...this didn't happen to me, but apparently computer data has the potential of being erased somehow since you are very close to the wires above the train.] For my overnight trip to Vienna, I decided to risk not getting a reservation (because it wasn't required) and was fortunate enough to find an available seat.

I spent the night on that top bunk.
The middle bunk was able to fold down to make the bottom bunk like a bench.
bed chart for one side of the bunk bed cabin
Depending on the train, there are different styles of seats: regular seats, 6 person cabins [some of these seats can apparently unfold--these two girls who have obviously taken the overnight train before, and they pulled out the seats and even brought along a comforter with them--so it was like they were sleeping on a bed], bunk beds, individual rooms, and first class.

I'm all for spontaneous trips, but make sure you at least look up some sort of schedule to see if reservations are required--if you get caught without  a reservation especially on an overbooked train, you could end up paying quite a bit more money than if you got a reservation in the first place!

One of the problems I ran into happened when trying to get to Paris. (I believe reservations were required because it was the fast train.) Apparently, the first 2 weekends that I tried getting there were a French holiday and they claimed that there were no available seats on the train. I was finally able to make reservations for ~27 EUR. Reservation prices vary--my reservations have ranged from 4 EUR to <30 EUR.

I paid around $1500 USD for the Pass. It may sound like a lot, but with the amount of traveling that I did, it was TOTALLY worth it. I probably could've bought 2 Passes with the amount of money I would have spent on the train rides individually.

Obviously, train travel is slower than airplane, but if you have the time (and the Pass) it's probably a cheaper option. You also get to see the beautiful European countrysides, mountains, and lakes--which are GORGEOUS! :)

(this one may have been taken from a bus)



Be Flexible!
One of the keys to train travel is that you have to be prepared to be flexible. Sometimes trains are late and sometimes you miss your connecting train. It happens. All you can do at that point is take a deep breath and go for plan B. Look for the next connecting train or find a different route. The automatic ticket kiosks are usually very helpful, or you can go to the ticket counter and ask a person for help. Like my friends and I did in Nice, we had to take an hour long taxi ride since no trains were coming until morning. Also, sometimes there are mishaps...like tree branches landing on the tracks after a storm (resulting in having to take a taxi the rest of the way to your destination) or a landslide taking out part of a track (resulting in having to take 5 extra trains, a bus ride, and a metro ride). So yeah, be flexible and just roll with it...because that's really all you can do...just consider it part of the experience.

The landslide that caused me to be on the bus from where I took this picture...the train tracks are under there...
Side note: If you are traveling internationally, sometimes you can only see train schedules or get reservations if you go to the ticket counter and make arrangements.

Itinerary
It's a good idea to print out your travel itinerary. It will list the time that the trains are scheduled to arrive and depart, and in many cases, it also tells you what your arriving/departing platform numbers are--which are good to know in case you need to sprint to the next train.

Pay Attention!
If you travel to Italy, and don't know how to speak Italian, I would strongly recommend not falling asleep/resting your eyes on the train (unless you set an alarm for a couple minutes before you're supposed to arrive at your destination according to your itinerary). Most (or at least many) Italian trains do not announce things in English...or any other language for that matter--so look out the window and pay attention to the train stop signs or try to ask people on the train for a translation if you need one.

Firenze S.M.N. = Florence
As you probably should anyway, make sure you are traveling with your passport!--especially if you are traveling through different countries. Sometimes they--as in either the ticket collector or the police--ask for passports...I don't know what happens if you can't present your passport, but I know I wouldn't want to find out!

Also, as always, keep an eye on your belongings! Trains do have luggage racks (overhead and ones that are more like shelves away from the seats), so feel free to use them but make sure to watch your things!

Make New Friends
Especially if you are traveling alone, you may have to depend on other people on the train. I've had to ask people for directions, ask if I'm on the correct train, ask to borrow a cell phone, etc. I hope that you are able to find people who are helpful, nice, and speak your language (in my case, English). Just be friendly (while also keeping your guard up--remember to be smart!) to people--you never know who you'll meet! I still occasionally keep in contact with some people that I met on my train ride to/from Pisa! :)
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Well, that's pretty much all the train info I can think of at the moment. If I come up with anything else, I'll add it on to this post or just make a new post. I'm considering taking a 23 hour train ride this summer (within the US)...I do miss train rides, but I'm not too sure about a 23 hour one haha...Anywho, happy travels! :)



Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Vienna and Konstanz and Paris, Oh My! :)

*From May 13
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Well, I definitely have A LOT of catching up to do! I'm on the train going back to Konstanz--I visited one of my friends in Lausanne, Switzerland. Continuing from my May 3 entry:

April 27: After dinner, I prayed the rosary/novena with my mom's friend & her husband. Throughout the day, I met there three sons.

April 28: I ate breakfast and then spent the day touring around Vienna with my mom's friend's husband. We went to: Schönbrunn Palace, Belvedere, Hundertwasserhaus building--a funkily  designed building, got some eis, and then döner for lunch.

Schönbrunn Palace
Schönbrunn Palace
Schönbrunn Palace
Schönbrunn Palace
Belvedere
Belvedere
Belvedere
Hundertwasserhaus
Eis!
Döner Box!

We went back to the house to get ready for Mass. We went to Mass at "the black church." They call it the black church because the church building itself is black. The church is right outside of the UN, and quite fittingly, the Mass was said in English, 1 or 2 songs were sung in Filipino, the priest was Liberian or Nigerian. The majority of the people there were Filipino. After Mass, we took pictures outside of the UN building, and then went to the city's tower point. I went up with her and saw the view of the city. We went to the mall to meet up with some of their friends and then went back to the house for dinner and the novena.  The night before or this night, I found out (via tv) about the Stuttgart Porsche tennis tournament.

Church near the UN
the black church
United Nations
Vienna
Vienna

[Side note: Aside from being homesick, lately I've been feeling lonely. :/]

April 29: I ate breakfast and then went with my mom's friend and 2 of her sons to their friend's house for a get together/prayer group meeting. Before going to that get together, we stopped by a bubble tea place. I got mango bubble tea with mango-filled? "bubbles"--it wasn't tapioca or gummy...the bubble bursts out juice/syrup.



After the get together, we went to another friend's (who also went to college with my mom) house for another get together. I met some people around my age, and wish I had met them earlier in the weekend. I went on a walk with 2 of my new friends to hang out and chill at the park nearby. One of them lived in San Francisco, CA for a while, so it was nice to talk to her about the USA. Before our walk, I ate a late lunch of rice, bbq, and rice krispie bars. When we came back from the park, my parentals were on Skype. :) I then played guitar :) and ate dinner--rice, bbq, kase krainer (sausage with cheese), and hung out in the backyard.

 
We brought some of their family friends home before going back to the house. They gave me a lot of chocolate to bring home in the USA, and I got food from the party to bring back to Konstanz.

April 30: I had breakfast and went with my mom's friend's husband to the train station--leaving Vienna. The train left at 7:14am, and I got back to Konstanz around 5pm. I settled back in at Konstanz and ate dinner.

May 1: I had the day off from class because of a bank holiday (Labor Day). I had breakfast and then tried going to the Germany within Europe building to work on a project, but it was closed. Lunch. Dinner. Possibly Skyped with people.



May 2: Fluids, Germany within Europe, lunch in the cafeteria with 2 of my friends, Heat Transfer. Went to Aldi & Müller, had dinner, and then packed for Paris! I called my brother's friend to make sure plans were still okay for the weekend. I Skyped with my brother and then took a "nap." Most of the KU students decided not to go anywhere this weekend because of our Heat Transfer midterm that will be on Tuesday. It kind of made me feel bad & that I should stay, but I decided to make the most out of the weekend since I've been trying so long to get to Paris, and I would bring Heat Transfer with me to study.

May 3: I finished packing and then went to Fluids. I have one of my friends my Fluids stuff to bring back to the apartment so that I could go straight to the train station. I bought a pretzel and waited for the train. Konstanz --> Zurich. Zurich --> Paris. FINALLY arrived in Paris! :) 


I arrived around 5:30pm at Gare de Lyon. After getting off the train, it took me quite a while to figure out how to get to the metro stop. I bought a 3 day metro pass for 21 EUR. I asked for directions, but she gave me walking directions (only 1 stop from the station). While outside, it said it was 750m away, so I decided to go back and try again. I finally found it & figured out what direction to go in (my brother's friend gave me metro directions, but she didn't say the final stop...& I had been looking at a bus or tram map instead of a metro map...) There were lots of people on the metro & it was a lot busier that I imagined. I finally got to the Convention stop where she was going to meet me at 6:30pm. i got there and went out of the metro. There was a market right outside, and then I realized I didn't know if I should wait outside or in the metro...and my phone didn't/doesn't have credit. I went back down and didn't see her, so I went back up. I waited a while & went back down again. I saw someone sitting & I walked towards her--I think we were both trying to figure out if the other was the right person. Thankfully, it was her. :) Then we walked to her apartment and stopped by a bakery to get a baguette--best when it's warm! I got settled in to her apartment & chilled.



We left to go out for dinner and explored since she had just moved there a week or two ago & wasn't too familiar with the area. We found somewhere to eat--I ordered something we both heard of, but weren't actually sure what it was. It ended up being similar to the smoked, not exactly cooked ham that my friend for with her crêpe in Nice. It came with salad, fries, and bread, and I got a glass of rosé. 




Peace. Love. Happiness.
--TR